Children as Canaries
As someone who wishes to become an educator as a means to provide a safe space for children, this week's reading was very powerful to me. When it comes to advocating for children, I am the first one to speak up on the "trouble" or "problem child's" behalf. I wholeheartedly agree with Shalaby that some behaviors (typically disruptive ones) are a "loud sound of their suffering and a signal cry to the rest of us that there is poison in our shared air" (Preface, 7). The way that the author in this text compared children to canaries in a mine was a beautiful and insightful analogy. The "poison" in our air that the author refers to, is the broken and outdated methods within our schools. Our children are regularly telling us that something is wrong! Yes, it is challenging to regulate and deal with disruptive behaviors, however, if we continue to ignore them or punish the children rather than sort out the issue and find a new solution, these behaviors will continue. The children's cries will become louder, and the frustrations will only fester. It is not that the children aren't suited for school, it is that our schools are not suited for our children. Our schools are not meeting the needs of these children. Recently, I attended a professional development training via Inspiring Minds. It was a training in trauma-informed classroom management, and there was one statement that stuck with me. Our speaker compared children within our schools to soda cans. When you buy a pack of soda cans, it is impossible to tell with the naked eye which cans have been shaken before being purchased. Therefore, you approach each new can with caution and with care, so as not to have an explosion. Meaning, that when you walk into your classroom of children--of soda cans--you cannot tell which ones have been shaken before being dropped off at school. Maybe, there are issues at home, maybe they were just yelled at, or perhaps they haven't eaten. It could be that they did not sleep well, or that they are just having a rough morning. Whatever it may be, you must treat them with care. They are children and deserve to feel safe within the walls of their school. If a child's needs are not met before being in your classroom; if they are feeling any type of dysregulation, that will affect their ability to learn and function within the class. The least we can do as teachers is act with compassion and take care of our soda cans. Currently, misbehavior is met with harsh and humiliating consequences. The child is isolated from their peers, made to sit out and miss important activities or free time. They are learning that they do not matter and that their presence is not needed. So, it is no wonder why children who present disruptive behaviors at a young age and are then isolated from their peers continue to struggle throughout school. As they get older, they may stop coming to class or participating, because, from a young age, it's been ingrained in them that their presence is not needed. Shalaby states, "Many cases of dropout are actually cases of pushout" (Intro, 4). How can we learn to embrace our children and their behaviors? What can we do as a new generation of educators to make dysregulated students feel secure?

Here is a link to a connecting blog post. blog linkIt is about holding space for your students and being present with them. A quote I enjoyed was, "The most noteworthy events in our classrooms are often the least seen or the least momentous, and yet they can be the most meaningful. They are the magical moments in which we are connecting with our students through inquiry, personalized assistance or having a light bulb moment in the classroom, which can be spontaneous. To experience those fully, we need to open ourselves to their existence. These moments are not measured by what goes into it as a recipe, but rather by our actions and reactions to it."